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Q&A: Why not just do whatever you want whenever?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by bobby: Why not just do whatever you want whenever?
I am 21 and never getting in a relationship, just not how I am. If dudes want to do everything for a chick and follow her around like a dog just to get some *** that is their problem, but I aint about to have anything to do with that and do whatever I want whenever I want. I am probably going to sleep until 3 or 4 pm today hang out with roommates maybe play some games, go out lift and then go box. Im on my own time, no one elses and thats how I live. So why everyone especially chicks try to make you do **** you aint trying to do and compromise or get you all on their time??? Guys why you let chicks do that to you, screw compromises do what you want to whenever???

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Answer by Brett
Well I wish you good luck on your ultimate goal. This is what I call Freedom and it comes with a price. If you think your not dependent upon others your a fool. We are all dependent upon many different people every day. Even if we work and pay taxes and mind our own affairs we still need and depend on others. Most likely what you need is a good female partner who isn’t bent on controlling you and your life. You will learn alot from a female companion. You may even learn that your ideas you have today will change. And believe me they will. I am 31 and I was very wild at 21. Most of all I would say do what is right in your heart. Compromise isn’t a bad thing if you keep your integrity. Good Luck

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My wife doesn’t enjoy sex or anything that leads up to it, HELP!?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by arcaneview: My wife doesn’t enjoy sex or anything that leads up to it, HELP!?
This is a little long (I’m sorry) and yes I do expect you to read it all so if you’re in a good mood to help someone in need, please read it all and respond accordingly.

Just like the subject line says, my wife tells me that she doesn’t enjoy and isn’t interested in sex or anything that leads up to it and I need help because I of course do enjoy it!!! We have sex once every two to three months and that includes all types of sex!!! To keep up with my sex drive I have to masturbate daily to keep myself from going insane…

Now, I’m not your typical nagging husband either, I’ll mention it’s been a while and make a pass towards her once and a while but I don’t press on when she tells me no or gives me some lame excuse about not having time (although I’ll make time and she doesn’t utilize it). The only time I will ever throw a tantrum is if it’s been *way* too long and she’ll normally give me sympathy sex at that point.

When I ask her what she *does* enjoy she says she gets more “pleasure” out of backrubs, foot massages, playing with her hair, and popping her zits on her back/face than doing sexual things or doing things that could lead into sex (like dressing sexy, talking sexy, touching each other’s body through clothing, ect). Don’t get me wrong, I will pamper her because it makes her happy but if she had her way I’d be pampering her every day (and I still wouldn’t get sex in exchange)…

As far as the dressing sexy thing, I give her *a lot* of time to do it but I don’t know what her issue is, whether it’s low self esteem or depression or what, but she doesn’t even make an effort. She’ll just throw on a baggy t-shirt and some loose fitting jeans on her days off (which isn’t a huge turn on obviously – unless I was turned on by what dudes wear – but I’m not) and for work she has to wear business casual but she wears the most conservative clothing she can find (never wears skirts/dresses and/or heels just flats and never ever anything that could be considered revealing or visually stimulating). She never said anything about it but my guess is she doesn’t like feeling/looking attractive (not even for me)… Yes, she did hook me for life but that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to enjoy seeing her at her best once and a while (maybe not every day but once a week would be nice)… By no means am I saying that she has to look like a pornstar to make me happy but I’m her husband and she should want to do what little things she can do to keep me from looking at other women and/or wanting to stray (I’m 7 years married/faithful but I’m just that most people do things like this to keep it that way as married couples)…

We’re in our mid 20′s, despite us both working we make under the poverty line after bills are taken into account, we have two kids (so she had to like sex at least twice in her life), she’s thin and gorgeous but I’m a little overweight for my height, and, yes, we are stressed out to the bone (who isn’t). We’re generally happy in our relationship but she never talks to me about our problems when there is one (I’m obviously open with my issues in hopes of a solution), as a matter of fact, to get her to talk I have to frustrate her by asking a lot of questions to get it out of her (and I have to ask the *right* ones too)… As far as the kids, again I give her *a lot* of time without them. She has plenty of time to “recharge her battery” but she’d rather spend it talking with her girlfriends through the internet or wasting time on youtube, myspace, photobucket, and, yes, yahoo…. As a matter of fact, the only time we spend together is probably in bed (sleeping)…

Help me! What do you think I can do to fix my issues?!?! Marriage counseling isn’t the solution as SHE WILL NOT GO….

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Answer by singleluvin1
I told my husband from the beginning that if he ever stopped giving me sex, I would find it elsewhere and I meant it. He said “ditto” so things have always been good with us. I think you should have been upfront about how much you like sex from the beginning and she should have told you how much she dislikes it. Maybe you wouldnt be in this situation now.

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My Jaw completely locked up on me last night what could it be?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by Kenneth M: My Jaw completely locked up on me last night what could it be?
Ok so this has happened twice now, Once on friday night and than again on Sunday night. Both times, it was while laying in bed/half asleep. And both times I could sense that something was going to happen? Like I can feel something about to happen to me? than sure enough my Jaw like completely locked up or something? & some other stuff happened too but I can’t really remember exactly what happened. But for sure my Jaw locked up & I immediately screamed “Help me!” it only lasted like 2 or 3 seconds, than it’s over with? Than I go to bed..

It may have even happened 3 times. Now today is monday (that happened to me last night) I woke up & there is this very specific small area on my right “Peck” (Chest muscle) where it feels sore? if I push on it I can feel like a little pain?

Other things that have been happening to me lately:

Some times I think my fingers will twitch? like on my left hand they will kinda just twitch maybe only 1 finger & maybe only 1 twitch & thats it for the day.

And I have little spasms’ some times, but I think thats kinda normal right?

And a couple times, at night while falling asleep, right as i’m falling asleep. I’ll like have this “Jolt!!!” it’s weird? I will lay there, half asleep, than it’s like my body all on it’s own will: kind of Jump up or Pop up & my eyes open, kind of like I quickly got scared about something, & jumped up outa bed. Like I react the same way some one would if you were to poor water on some dude who is half a sleep. They would probably “pop up” right out of bed like “Whoa!” that’s what happened to me like 3 times. And it does it by it’s self? it’s really freakin weird. haha it’s not like I got scared &jumped on my own, my body just kinda jumps up on it’s own.

& when I say jump up, or pop up, I mean- Imagine laying flat on your back, than all of a suden, you lift up your legs & back from the bed, just your but is on the bed for a quick second, Just a quick like Shock! or something!? but with no pain? no feeling, just naturally did that on it’s own 3 times?

Thanks! guys! may god bless you all.

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Answer by grandpa walleye
You are having problems with your TMJ. Things may well worsen with time resulting in more severe lock ups, headaches, and jaw pain. It would be a good idea to have an exam to evaluate your TMJ. Good luck

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Do you like my writing? *warning explicit content*?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by js: Do you like my writing? *warning explicit content*?
It was a typical summer evening, and I was headed to the mall with best friend, Danny. I was already 15 minutes late to pick him up. I quickly grabbed my keys off the table and rushed out the door. I wasn’t excited or anything, but there was something about that night I couldn’t explain. It almost felt…magical. Rock music blared from the white SUV as it pulled in front of Danny’s driveway.
“Right on time,” He said sarcastically as he jumped in the passenger’s seat. Danny was always being a smart ass. I guess it was just his thing, but sometimes it could get annoying.

“Sorry I’m late, dude,” I muttered. I said dude a lot. Maybe it was just a bad habit, but I think part of it was because I was grew up next to the ocean and it just came naturally. I put the SUV in drive and slammed the pedal down as hard as I could. By the time we reached the mall we were both hungry. We decided to head to Taco Bell, for the millionth time that week. Soon after we headed over to Borders, sitting in silence as we read random books. I remember taking the stuffed panda bears on the shelves and placing them on top of each other so it looked like they were having panda sex. You could say I was crazy, but honestly I was just super bored.

It was getting late, and Danny had decided to take a short nap in the leather reading seats. I figured I might as well check out some other stores while he was out. I casually shuffled down the center boardwalk, checking out stores as I went. I was just about to turn around and go back to Border’s when something caught my eye. It was a surfing movie, inside of an Aeropostale store. Ah, what the hell, I thought. I might as well check out one last store before I head back. Danny was probably still sleeping anyway.
As I strode into the store, a unique smell filled my nostrils. There was mostly girls in the store, to my delight. That’s when I saw her. She had golden blonde hair, tan skin and the most beautiful green eyes I had ever seen. Suddenly her gaze met mine, and I froze in place. Her eyes glittered with pure beauty. I tried to move my legs, but they were glued in place. She must be an angel, I thought. Everyone else seemed to disappear, and it was just the two of us. Right then I knew, we were meant to be. I was meant to be here. At this exact time. It was meant to happen. Before I had time to react, she walked up to me and whispered in my ear, “I found you.”

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Answer by abc :)
thats not realistic but good

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Can I get a girls opinion on this?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by Mike: Can I get a girls opinion on this?
Ok…. I was going through a period of self pity and self hatred. It got to me and I was losing it. I realize thats not the way Im going to live my life. im completely done.

However, my girlfriend and I tonight went to dinner. She went through a hard time of depression. It really damaged her. She recovered quite well though. I told her my week was rough. she said how weird it was that your having issues a week after her depression. She told me how theres nothing wrong with me and how I should get a therapist. SHe told me that you can’t dwell on negative thoughts, you must make yourself be happy. And I kept acting like something was wrong, and she said everything was fine. I felt like I was annoying her even though she said she wasnt.

Anyhoo Im done with living in self pity. I realize I am the boss of my life and I am going to be happy cuz I have a great life and a great girlfriend.
however i realized why i became like that. me and my girlfriend were going out, and we picked up her friend to drop off at another friends house. now im a chill dude, and kinda quiet around girls. but my girlfriend starting smiling and giggling, and I began thinking wow i cant even make my girlfriend smile. she says i dont have to be the funny guy or the energetic one and that she loves me. But i just wanna make her happy. she didnt answer her phone last night cuz she was probably sleeping, but what should I say to her to make everything normal again? thanks

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Answer by sunset
She sounds kind of rude making light of your feelings when she had issues of her own and you were there to care about her depression. Move on. I don’t think she’s the kind of “great” girlfriend you think she is.

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I just busted her with another dude…?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by James W: I just busted her with another dude…?
She treated me worse than crap……I dated her for a year and half. I spent last year trying to get her out of the crap she was putting herself into. I know that she slept with probably more than 10 guys during this period, and it hurt me really bad, but that wasnt my main concern as I was trying to get her of the drugs (Meth) and she became a stripper at one point(I used to c her doing all that and I was crushed because of the fact that she is like a little baby). Her behavior completely change 1 month ago, she quit drugs and she was sleeping at this dude’s apartment. I know that she was trying to hook up with him (BECAUSE SHE WAS PLAYING THE GOOIE-GOODIE STUFF AND OHHH AM THE INNOCENT VICTIM OF THIS WORLD…..BLAH BLAH BLAH) thats how she fooled me in the beggining (Oh am the most innocent girl in the world, and then she became a stripper!!!!). I asked her about this dude and she told me “oh its a nice guy who kissed me on the cheeck and thats it” of course by knowing her, I know that she was lying and that they already had sex, so couple of days ago she lied about staying out the whole night with friends and she was staying at that dude’s apartment, and when I asked her if she is seeing someone and after 1 hour stupid argument, she said “yes” and then I told her not to call me again, so she went home and started calling me and crying and left some voice mail saying” you know I dont have a boyfriend, and I love you and I want to be in my life forever”". Today I went to grab a subway sandwich from subway store in wal-mart. I saw her car at the parking lot, I went inside and she was at the nail&spa section( Dressed up like a whore, really short dress) and with this guy, I stood their without she seeing me. I wanted to leave without saying nothing but 1-Couldnt 2-I didnt wanna leave and then she calls me and deny it or say oh he is just a friend. So I decided to go inside. I went there and she just smiled when she saw me(She couldnt say a thing) So I grabbed her hair and told her “Is that what it is?” and looked at the guy and asked “what is ur name?” he got scared and you know what he told me “I am no englais” (He doesnt speak english) (Thats how despearate she is) so I looked at her and told her “you are a whore, dont f*%ng call me again” and she just shook her head, and I left. An hour after that she called me and was like “are you stalking me”, and “what you did was not cool” and I told her that I wasnt stalking her and that she is either so dumb or so careless to go to the wal-mart store the one by my work (There is always a pssibility that I might see her!!! I think its a combintation of stupid and careless) so I yelled at her at the phone and hung up. Then after 2 minutes I called her and said “I just wanted to tell you that I loved you so much, but you are hurting me so much, why dont you tell this dude the truth, have the gutts and be honest, tell him that you were a stripper, tell him about your mental illnesses, You know I know that you gonna call me again, in a week or so” and she was like “No am not going to” and am like”okay, I f*%ng hate you and dont ever call me again” and hung up.

Now I gotta say a coupleof things: 1-the whole wal-mart seen wasnt intended, I am a very polite person, highly educated, and well behaved, and I dont do these things. But when I saw her I couldnt handle it. (I have to admit that maybe I felt that what I would do would break the relationship between them)

2-No offense to anyone who doesnt speak english, but com’on, How desperate you can get to have a boyfriend who doesnt speak english, when she can say like 50 sentences in spanish!!!

3-Probably that whole phone scene wasn’t right, I felt stupid for picking up the phone and telling her “oh i loved and I hate you” like a little ***. (Execuse my language)

4-I dont know anyone here. And you know I became so self contious now. An I am really embarressed to ask this, but there you go: I look 10 times better than him, I have a masters degree and he is a janitor, he doesnt speak english. I mean what in the world???!! Could you let me know.. I guess am just venting or something…Thanks for reading.

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Answer by snicker_bar_boy
DumpTheB**ch!

You should be in another woman’s bed TONITE!

Stop being a pathetic american male doormat.

Gawd, you’re an embarrassing excuse for a man.

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Q&A: Question for American men?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by ☆TRiNiTY☆™ {♥}: Question for American men?
Every American girl I have met is OBSESSED with British guys accent, Like I mean the dude could be ugly and greasy with acne but if he had a British accent the girl would probably sleep with him, lol.

and I was wondering what the American Men thought of British Girls accent?

(by the way I’m American I’m just wondering about what you think of the accents)

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Answer by Skanky Pomegranate
ELLO GUV’NA!

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DUDE OMGOMGOMG I AM 14 AND PREGNANT?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by S: DUDE OMGOMGOMG I AM 14 AND PREGNANT?
Yeah. I’m not pregnant. I just needed to get your attention. Don’t call me a troll or tell me to “stay off the internet”. JUst nobody ever answers my questions, so I needed an attention getter. Now that you’re here…..
I need some things to do while I am on a road trip that goes from New York to Washington State. It is 30+ hours. I have one sibling; he’s 5. I am 14 year old girl. So, we can’t really do anything together. Besides, he will probably sleep the whole time. Anyway, I need some distractions and thingsto do. I don’t have a PSP or a Nintendo DS or a DVD player or iTouch or anything like that. Plus, texting is out of the question because I don’t have anyone to text. I have an video iPod and a Kindle, but I don’t want to do that for the entire 30 hours. I also have some stuff to make friendship bracelets with. But that’s it.I need ideas! And don’t say stupid stuff like the alphabet game or license plate bingo. My mom will probably sleep (she always sleeps on road trips) and my dad will concentrate on the road. So give me something creative i can do or even something not so creative. Thanks. remeber, it’s 30 HOURS.

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Answer by Jme
why would you post this in pregnancy? grow up

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Q&A: Curious about relationship?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by Jimmy T: Curious about relationship?
When I was 16 I began a sexual relationship with an older closeted athlete from my high school. When I was 18 I was betrayed by one of my friends and everyone found out about us. NO one has ever dared ask me because we stay in a small community and let’s face it gays run in cliques, so people never even bring it up . We stopped messing around for about 3 years and one night he called me and we started back messing around (which was spring of 2007) till this day people don’t really know what to believe, but they definitely think he is b/c he was an ultra homophobic atheletic type. .I’m 23 now

Consider the following:

-We NEVER really talk. When he calls i pick up ,we do it and I leave.
- I was his 1st guy.
- He is a Super-ho (He has probably slept with over 200 women)
-I’ve said more in this question then I have to him in our entire 7 year history
-He doesn’t really have stable relationships and he cheats on every gf
-He has a reputation for having a little thing and being bad with sex( he was a joke in HS, but he never knew that)
-He says odd things when we do it, like ” I’m going to screw you 4ever, are you mine, do you love me?” He only started doing this recently
-When he moved a long time ago i used to drive an hour in the middle of the night to go see him while i was in Hschool
—–He used to try to make power plays by saying he doesn’t want to see me any more, or he would be like just give me head (which is a sign of dominance in some men)
-He has VERY low IQ
–THe only girl in history he was faithful to broke his heart and made him cry, which is damn near impossible 4 a black man
-He is deeply sensitive
-He is SUPER-HOT!!!!
-We are both black and from the south and he is a typical “I hate fags” type guy and I’m fem.
-I’m very good in bed

HERE is my question: What is up with this dude?

I’m not looking for advice I just want to understand what’s going on with him.I’ve been around and I’ve met my fair share of broken men and closet guys but he takes the cake. He once tried phone s#* one day which I was like lame…..
He doesn’t know I’m not taking him serious he is just something I do to pass the time, but I’m curious as to what is going on up stairs.

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Answer by reme_1
He has no redeeming qualities. Why would you waste your time with him??? I have heard that the Black community is very hard on gay men. So, of course he will hide it. He may be lying to himself and to the community but he is also dragging you along for the ride.
Drop him and get a real boy friend. Have a happy life.

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Q&A: what’s the point of not being a manwhore if my next girlfriend is probably going to be a slut.?

November 1st, 2010 Admin

Question by But I Have Issues… So…: what’s the point of not being a manwhore if my next girlfriend is probably going to be a slut.?
I am, for lack of a better word, old fashioned. I’ve never slept with someone who wasn’t my girlfriend. I hold doors, pull out chairs, and am generally respectful of women. The thing is, I hold sex in high regard. I don’t want to share the connection i’ve had before with a ton of different people. I only want to share it with someone i love, hence the term making love. The chances of me meeting a girl with similar beliefs about sex are slim already, but take into consideration the fact that she’s probably slept with 10 different dudes in the past few years (i’m in college) and you got a person who may claim to believe that sex is special and the connection is only meant for those you love, while they get drunk and let the first slobbery frat guy she sees to fuck her on the puke stained couch. Should i get over these things and try to have a relationship or should i just be the slobbery frat guy who has no qualm with taking advantage of the girl he fed yuegger shots all night?
i am not talking about a girl in particular, in fact i’m friends with plenty of rotten guys, but i don’t have sex with them so i don’t care what they do to those girls, as long as it’s not despicable.

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Answer by Tiny Dan
some girls are better than others , you need to be the best man you can be and everything will be fine

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